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Make your friendship deeper and stronger with this list of some simple n effective tips for life time — or “Rules for Friendship ” — from Immature Advice.
1. Think About Yourself
At first instance this sentence signs us to be bit selfish but you had mistaken. It simply means don’t loose your personality, yourself for being somebody’s friend. Your life experience build up your personality. And you might have struggled very hard trying not to lose your personal identity for example sacrificing jobs, in all rebelling against whatever you feel is against your self-respect.
Though who you dynamically change, especially during your teenage, some aspects of your personality change after getting influenced from other while others will stay pretty much of same. At every stage of life you may urge to become most popular member of the your group. However, always be true to yourself — and don’t become somebody else’s clone.
2. Don’t Do Gossip Try to Avoid
Friends don’t spread rumours not even about other friends…. I know it’s very difficult especially for girls…..but the thing is rumours sometimes hurt very badly… just think yourself how you will feel if you have heard something shocking about your friend…. will you bear it??…. NO, You won’t let the rumour turn flying free-for-all anyhow…
You certainly wouldn’t be happy if someone did that to you, so set a good example for others — and for yourself.
3. Defend Your Friends
FRIEND IN NEED IS FRIEND INDEED a very famous quote of course… at every point of your life stand behind your friend but don’t hesitate to stand in front….
It is always important to find out both sides of the story in any situation, keep faith on your friend and if you find him/her correct, give your best possible support and try to take out your friend out of troubles. And if you find your friend wrong don’t leave your friend but help your friend to improve his/her mistakes…
4. Protect Your Friends
When a friend of yours is making not-so-great decisions — whether it’s about drugs, alcohol, studying or dating — do your best to look out for them. This doesn’t mean telling them what to do constantly, but you can offer gentle advice and guidance from time to time. Show them path which is good for them and if they are not asking you for way try to avoid them from taking wrong turns which may lead to disastrous accidents….
You mean a lot to your friends and try to be a good influence…..
5. Be Careful About Boyfriends and Girlfriends
It’s a good rule of thumb to stray away from dating the exes of your friends. It’s an even better rule of thumb to avoid dating the people your friends have crushes on — or people who have turned down your friends for dates. Even if your friend gives you the go-ahead, wait a while to get involved with someone who broke their heart or betrayed their confidence.
6. Return the Favour
There are times when a friend will lend you a jacket, a textbook or a shoulder to cry on. A good friend will pick you up when you’re stuck in a rainstorm and listen patiently when you share a problem with them. Be sure that you’re equally as generous with your time, your emotions and your possessions. People will take notice, and it’s something to feel good about.
“Prayer makes everything possible”…..yeah but the period in which we wait for the fruits given by ALMIGHTY is becomes impossible without FRIENDS. FRIENDSHIP can’t be defined in words but its feeling can be expressed on the very special day, that is dedicated to friends “FRIENDSHIP DAY”.
First all wishing you all my dear ones “HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY”
Think for a while, from birth we determine our self to give world’s happiness to our parents our family….in youth we try to impress our girlfriend or boyfriend with lots of gifts…..after marriage we focus on our children, wife/husband, family……but accept birthday gifts did we ever gave anything to our friends? That too we frequently forget our friend’s birthday….BUT THE THING IS WE DONT LOOK UPON OUR FRIENDS IN ALL THIS MESH…..
This is the day on which we can make our buddies feel what their importance in our life is. You always know what your friend’s likes/dislikes, so for a day focus on likes…spare out at least one day for them just for them….
Now the story is somewhat like, In 1935, cruel American Government killed a man on 1st Saturday of the august month .Listening to it his best friend committed suicide on the next day i.e., on Sunday. So in his memory, 1st Sunday of AUGUST month was officially declared as FRIENDSHIP DAY.
Just think people gave their life for their friends so at least you can give them something special. There are many ways by which one can celebrate friendship day. Now a day’s people ties a belt on the hand of their friends, even writes some messages or dedicate few lines about their friends and write on the hand. They go outside whole day and enjoy a lot. There are many ways through which you can get surprised your best buddies. It depends upon the feeling of the person and what kind of relation is their between two persons. Everybody celebrates in their own way. Some of the ways through which you can surprise your buddies are as follows,
- At least you can send e-cards to all of your friends.
- Tie friendship bands of different colors, which is the traditional way. You can bring innovativeness in it by giving bracelets to your friends…in this way your friends will be able to wear at in daily routine.
- You can go to the favourite place of your friend and even call his other loved ones and surprised him/her then dedicate few words about your friend in front of everyone and give some special gift.
So these are some of the ways which i think a person can give surprise to their friends. Hence this is my style to impress my friends on this occasion , now i would glad to know about some of your style that how you would be impressing your friends on such a special occasion and make your friendship relation more stronger.
QUALITIES OF A GOOD FRIENDSHIP
Friendship is very important in everyone’s life. This is the most faith full relation in everyone’s life. Without friends I think life of a person will look like a plain paper of a notebook. Or a We know that heartbeats give life to the person and when it stops the person dies in the same sense if there is no friends in life a person’s life will mood less and endless creature . For us enjoyment share care loving teasing crying playing pranks etc lies in friends. Before all this selection of good friend play very important role in our life. Wrong selection of friend can ruin our life and proper selection can make our life. Full of joys and enjoyment If we play this role properly then we feel that we are living life of jannat. To have successful friendship it is very much necessary to have some special qualities of our friend. Some of the qualities which i think it should be there it is as follows:
Proper understanding between two friends.
Blind Trust on each other
care and share
Below is the Famous Definition of friendship.
TRUE friends are a true reflection of each other….. there’s a specific term in science “mirror images ”so true friends are mirror images of each other…
Everyone has a good friend in life ……. you, me and many others so having them in your life you should be proud of it .
They have some bad qualities and when the real-time come we come to know who are our good friends and who are just name friends .
Time plays a very important role in every sector of a human life so it also plays an important role in friendship also as time passes friend turn to good friend and then to best buddies forever some times these time lead us to a path where we have to select friend or best friend …….. and that’s the most hurting part of a friend’s life ……
Its a famous saying that
“A GOOD FRIEND IS A GIFT WHICH A PERSON GIVES TO ONESELF AND TO SOME INTENT I BELIEVE THAT’S TRUE FINDING A TRUE FRIEND IS LIKE FINDING ALL TREASURE OF LIFE AND IF YOU ARE BLESSED WITH SUCH FRIEND FEEL GLAD AND JUST TELL THEM THANKS FOR BEING YOUR FRIEND ……
FRIENDSHIP IS LIKE ONION…………..
Friendship is one of the great aspects of life. When we have them, fantastic but when we do not have we missed that a lot.
Friendship is defined in million ways. Here I just like to share my views about the friendship. It starts when we have some common interest, mutual understanding and Trust .Gradually it develop with time when our bonding become more string and we are ready to sacrifice for each other . In other words , There are many precious things in life, but friendship may be one of the most important. To live life without the experience of friendship, is life without income Human relations is a necessity to survival, but developed friendships are essential to the successful well being of anyone.
Friendship is a relationship that has many dimensions and styles. Friendship can be of between any two or persons and there is no compulsion of age, gender, geography, race, creed or nationality. People living in a house or living in this world are equally to prone to this relationship of friendship. Friendship has no boundaries and no limits.
Friends are one of most important things in our lives. Unfortunately we have a few real friends. I have a lot of friends- girls and boys. It does not matter what they are. They have to be my real friends. He or she has to be good and reliable. It does not matter how he or she looks like. He or she has to be responsible and helpful. I think these people are one of the best people in the world. If she or he is attractive and sensitive it will be wonderful! Just like me! But we have to be good with our friends who haven’t got character like this. Every man has features which he doesn’t like. We shouldn’t forget that we are people, too. I’m sure that if we are good with people we will have more and better friends.
But here the question all the time arises who is a Real friend. A friend who helps out when we are in trouble is a true friend—unlike others who disappear when trouble arises. So its up to you how you identify them. It may be because of any incident in your life or may be a good or bad experience. Ideally there is not as such any rule to identify a true or real friend. But in my view they are also patient with you when you make mistakes — even big ones — and learn how to forgive you when you hurt them. In other words, they treat you as you’d like to be treated, even when you aren’t at your best.
So this is my experience of friendship never let your true friend go even in the worst situation because it gives you tear only , if you try to cut it like onion………
“What is a friendship?
| “True friendship” is possibly the only relation with great emotional, spiritual attached and sometimes even blessings flow. A specific blend of heart, commitment, emotion, respect, trust and lots of fun that describes meaning
of true friendship. Basically mutual honor and powerful attachment with each other are what friends share between each other. To experience what is friendship, one must have true friends, who are so infrequent wealth.
” How to be a True Friend “
- Friendship is a feeling of pleasing and emotional safety with a person. It is when you do not have to weigh your thoughts and measure words.
- It is when individual knows you better than yourself and guarantees to be your side in every emotional situation.
- It is when you fight with at night and next morning back with a better understanding.
- Friendship is much on the far side straying together and sharing good moments, it is when somebody comes to saving you from the bad situation of life.
- In different ways friends improved our existences and made us feel darling, acknowledged, reputable and attention for? In all likelihood, too many another to listing, and the list develops day-to-day. It is safe to opportunity that when God make over the worldwide and all the superior things in it, when he patterned the heavens with beaming color
- Friendship is ageless.
|Probably my best friend is one of my schoolmates. Her name is pinky, actually krupa but i like pinky most , we know each other since we were 10 years old. If I were to describe how she looks, I would say she is very beautiful,jolly and pretty. She has long black hair, black eyes, a small nose and very tall and she is quite slim. She doesn’t like to dress up so I usually see her wearing jeans and a T-shirt or sweater. she and me always gossiping about something. She has a very nice personality and a wonderful sense of humor but get depressed a little some time. I always investigate on her to be honorable and to give me the best advice.|
We are interested in many of the same hobbies. We both enjoy music, dancing ,cooking sometimes . She likes to go the cinema but i can’t agree on movie to see. Sometimes we go for walk around. We usually spend time together most of the day . Whatever we’re doing, it’s always fun to be with her.
I know I can trust on her. Even though when our lives get busy we still manage time to talk each other, We always help each other if we get confused about any kind of difficulty . We are lucky that we complement each other so well and that we get along so well. I hope that our friendship will continue and be just as strong afterwards too.
Basically all the people has different kind of definitions of friendship. For Example it is the trust in an individual that whoever has friends. For others, it is unconditional beloved. Many People who feel that friendship is friendly relationship. All people has explanations based on the kind of occurrences they have had. This is one relation that has been raised since time immemorial. There are so many famous stories about friends in collections of different religious belief all over the world. Frankly speaking, friendship may be characterized as ‘a dynamic, mutual understanding between two persons. May God bless you with all the friends you need, and may he turn you into a blessing by using you as a friend to others.
I hope you people liked my definition about friendship and I am glad to know your definition about true friendship. I will wait for your replay.